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My Fab Five Steamy "Starters"

Valentine's Day is right around the corner! Here are some steamy foreplay idea/games to play with your spouse to get those juices flowing!

Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth— For your love is better than wine.~ Song of Solomon 1:2

Erotic Massage!!

Turn your bedroom (or any other room) into a massage room, complete with oils, candles and tranquil music. Massage every inch of their body, paying close attention to all their erogenous zones. Your spouse will definitely thank you for the "happy ending".


Naked Charades!!

Act out what you would like your partner to do it to you, without using words or pointing to your (or their) body parts. Once they guess it, YOU perform the act on THEM. Take turns.


Roll the Dice!!

Visit your local novelty store and pick up some inexpensive dice that have body parts on one and actions on the other. Take turns rolling the dice and follow the instructions for a predetermined amount of time (60 seconds is the minimum).

Try a variation of the game with regular game dice: Determine what body parts and actions represent the numbers on the dice (One through six for actions and one through six for body parts). Roll the dice and act accordingly.


Create a Sex Menu!!

Create a printed sex menu for your partner to choose from. Allow them to chose a "starter/appetizer", "entree", "sides" and "dessert". Get creative and think outside the box.


Bowling For Grapes!!

One spouse lays on his/her back, while the other takes one grape and places it on their spouse's forehead. Whatever body part the grape lands on is where they will kiss, lick, suck or tease for an allotted amount of time (30 seconds is minimum). Each player gets three turns. (For the "win", aim towards the erogenous zones!)

If you enjoyed this Wedded WHOAment, you may also enjoy reading "From Frump to Fabulous".




I love hearing from you! So let's chat!

*What are your top five, go to "steamy starters"?

*Are you planning to use any of these five? Which one(s)?

*Do you still date your spouse? You should!


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